Andrew’s story
1.) Can you tell us a bit about yourself and who you support?
[I’m] an unpaid carer of over 30 years for my mother at her residence.
2.) What kind of things do you do to support them?
Motivation is the main factor, I know all the medication, what it’s for, dose of tablets, schedule of each medication. Being adventurous in the meal choices I cook & baking as well. Regularly making sure both gardens are kept clean, tidy and prune & lawn when needed. Along with with the inside of the housework. I even decorate when needed, monthly I dye my mum’s hair. If my mum is in pain, I massage the body, & accompanying her to the swimming bath for her use. All appointments, groceries shopping is organised by myself when I accompany her for support. I managed the bills paid through Direct Debit.
3.) What has caring been like for you? What impact has being a carer had on your life?
The role of a carer takes a lot of time & patience from me. I have sacrificed my life to make sure I do this role to the best of my ability. I do enjoy this role, as I spend quality time with someone who previously sacrificed her life to care for me & being there for me & my sister. Now it’s my time.
4.) Have you always considered yourself to be a carer?
At the age of 13 I wouldn’t know what that work means, carer is a good selfless attribute that many people over century’s have done. Now yes I would considered as a carer, blessed, a motivater.
5.) What would make caring easier for you?
I do believe that carer needs to be recognize & rewarded financially better. Many unpaid carers have to do part time jobs as the Carer Allowance doesn’t supply enough money for them to live on.
6.) What would you say to someone who helps a friend or family member but doesn’t see themselves as a carer?
Caring is being there with love, affection & helping out, why not call yourself a carer.
7.) Is there anything else you’d like to add?
Offering more outdoor day trips for carers to bring the person their care for please
